Friends are people whose lists you can see.
Followers are people who can see your lists.
Feed is a list of all items that have been added to mylifelisted by either you or your friends.
Friends - You can see a Feed of all items they have added, which are either Public or Friends (not Private).
Followers - They can see a Feed of all items you have added, which are either Public or Friends (not Private).
If a friend has added you to a list item of theirs, you will see this in Mentions.
To see all your Friends:
To see all your followers:
When a person agrees to be your friend they are automatically both your Friend and your Follower.
You can add friends in 3 ways:
Either:
Or to find friends already members of mylifelisted:
Or to find friends already members of mylifelisted:
To be your Friend they must confirm this by selecting Add as a Friend when they receive your request.
You can see your pending requests in Friends:
When your Friends confirm you as a friend, they will no longer appear in your pending requests.
You can see who has requested you to be their friend in FRIENDS:
When you receive a friend request you can select either Add as a Friend or Ignore.
If you select Add as a Friend, you will be their Friend and Follower.
If you don't want someone seeing your Feed then you should BLOCK them:
Note: They will still be your Friend and you will still see their Feeds.
Note: The person blocked will still see you listed as their Friend, so that they are not alerted to the fact that you have blocked them, but they can't see your Feeds.
Note: You will still see them under your Followers even though they are no longer following you so that you can change your mind and decide to Unblock them.
See also: What are the default privacy settings for my lists?
If you don't want to see a Friend's Feed then you should UNFRIEND them:
Note: You will no longer see them as a Friend of yours and you will no longer see their Feeds.
Note: If you want to see their Feed again you will need to send a new Friend request.
Note: They will still be one of your Followers and get your Feeds unless you block them.
Note: They will still see you as a Friend and receive your Feeds.
Note: You will no longer be listed as one of their Followers.
See also: What are the default privacy settings for my lists.
If a list is Public, then it can be seen by everyone on mylifelisted.
There are 2 ways to see other people's lists:
Either:
Or:
To see your friends' lists which are either Public or Friends: